THE JOURNEY BEGINS

Life really begins at forty. Up until then, you are just doing research …..

Welcome!

Someone nicely said….

“Nothing is more impressive than a person who is secure in the unique way god has made her.“

As a women in her 40's, I understand the mental and emotional condition of all who are going through the same phase. This blog is my small effort to contribute to all readers my experiences to help them unravel the mysteries of life after 40’s and proceed towards a more meaningful life.

From now onward I shall be coming with some new experiences every Friday. Wait for my next write-up”10 Mantras to be Happy”……….

𝐒𝐮𝐝𝐢𝐩𝐭𝐚 𝐁𝐢𝐬𝐰𝐚𝐬

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ARE MARRIAGES MADE IN HEAVEN?

In order to analyse the above topic, we need to first answer why do we marry? Marriage is considered to be an institution which recognizes the union of two individual and provides rights and obligation between the couple involved in a marriage. The true essence of marriage is very different in different societies, cultures, and religions. But one factor is common in all and that is, marriage is lifelong (though many may disagree) commitment of togetherness and trust. If you go on to search for the reasons why somebody marries, love will definitely come as one of the major reasons. People marry because they are in love. Marriage ensures a protective covering around their love relation and couples believe that they will stay together no matter how hard time may come. But in some societies like ours (Indian society) even in the current time many marriages are organised by parents and are not out of love. This makes marriage more challenging. The perspective of marriage is eve...

STAY FIT STAY ATTRACTIVE

STAY FIT AND STAY ATTRACTIVE There is a nice quote by Douglas Macarthur which says......... “ You are as young as your faith, as old as your doubt; as young as your self-confidence, as old as your fear, as young as your hope, as old as your despair.” Turning 40 is like crossing a major milestone especially for a woman. Life at this stage has already given you enough experience, maturity and, elegance. With these, there came some free gifts like few grey hairs here and there, few fine lines under your eye and few extra kilos around your waist. These are the result of your decelerating metabolic rate and the hormonal changes which are inevitable at this age. What can you do about it? There are clearly two paths that you can take at this point in time. 1) You can make enough excuses and embrace life in whatever form it is coming to you 2...

HOW IMPORTANT IT IS FOR US TO BALANCE HOME AND WORK?

It has always been my effort to write about the issues pertaining to all women over 40. I do extensive research on the topics and try to find out some suitable remedies for the problems. Some of the topics will be relevant for all whereas some will be specific. This week I have selected a very pertinent topic for the women of the 21 st century. In today’s society, we see both men and women working together towards a prosperous future. A recent study by TIMES OF INDIA shows that more working women are married than single. This makes today’s topic more relevant for those who are married, maintaining a family and working as well. Let us see the challenges such women face in everyday life and are there some solutions to manage their issues and make them really blissful? What is work life balance? Work-life balance does not mean only a balance between your family life and your professional life but it also includes a number of other aspects like hobbies, leisure, social obligatio...

BLISSFUL 40s

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